What made you leave Eckankar? And what was the organization's reaction to your leaving?
Hi Ian, fair questions. The Org doesn't have "reactions", nor make direct comments about past members. In this respect they are very different to a Scientology type org. Silence is their way in all things. I was of no consequence nor any importance anyway. tens of thousands left before me and they keep leaving. Locally across the world they have independent "Satsangs" affiliated to eckankar, working similar to a Catholic Archdiocese. It is my understanding many in authority there were happy to see me go. I didn't fit their "public image" anymore and had become a bit of a "black sheep".
The penultimate reason for leaving was the leader's (Harold Klemp) seminar talk in Easter 2012 - it was a bridge too far for me. imv he had moved past reality in a way I could no longer accept. There had been "talk" of him stepping aside since the mid-2000s and a desire by many that he would sooner than later. He created a "story" that his "mission had been renewed" by the spiritual hierarchy and he wasn't going anywhere. Many personal things occurred, issues about ethics, cover ups, unnecessary secrecy, and the way many in authority treated people had led up to this point.
Like all "cults" and/or tight cultural groups and "institutions" (eg police, army, churches) there's a way of thinking about and seeing things which makes it difficult to move away easily. I was aware of that reality and of many prior complaints by people about the Org and leadership, some close friends left years before I did, but in the end it's a personal process one has to work through alone.
Dropping "cherished beliefs" is a difficult thing to shake. I see many psychological similarities between the broad issues of sex abuse in the Catholic Church and why people don't walk away from there easily either, with what people go through before leaving Eckankar and Scientology. The specifics of course, what's criminal and what's just plain nasty or not nice/ethical, are very different and should be looked at as such. But the psychological impacts and challenges are very much the same, ime and humble (non-qualified) personal opinion.
The majority of ECKists I have met were all genuine and very nice and sincere people; and yet some were also prone to be right asshats (some definitely saw me as an asshat too, such are the ways with subjective personal opinions). I hope that helps and isn't too long a reply.