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DAMN! That is one freaked out story! I mean my daughter wanted to say I was bad (cause I don't like her tool of a husband)... I happen to be right (he's a total tool). BUT, she wanted to "rewrite history". I've seen this before! People will start telling some nonsense & they tell it so often they begin to believe it.
However, the fact we have photos, videos & witnesses of her charmed life, well, it kind of fell flat. Even she had to come around. She at least admits her wonderful childhood.
But in your case WOW! A friend of mine is a doctor (who knew our family well) she couldn't believe what my daughter was doing. She said 2 things, 1) "let her go, she is on her own karmic path." 2) If you want it to change you have to go & pray to her past self (because this is coming from past trauma) & you're supposed to say you're sorry to that old soul for hurting it.
I never said I was sorry for nothing to that "old soul" I spent time, money & my good looks on kids! LOL (still good looking but anyway)... the point is... you are going to have to let him go. If you did nothing wrong he is really damaged. You can't fix this thing. I know, I KNOW that is going to be really hard & it's going to take a toll if you don't. You can't fix this without seeing "professionals" &
he is going to go with his story.
I mean for someone to go to THAT length. That's rough. I just got yelled at! I'd be mortified and frankly freaking angry as hell if the police were called in on some kind of lie! That's bad.
That can turn into a lot more trouble than you bargained for if he believes something (REALLY/REALLY) horrible. He would blame you for his life now. Not a good look. People get killed that way.
To your Q. NO. To pray for things to work out is a good thing. "Whenever 2 or more are gathered in his name." You can pray, but if it isn't working... you have to let go. For your own sanity.
Right now there is a crisis of these 20 something kids. I have no idea why, could be the media, the times, I don't know, but a lot of parents are experiencing this. Mostly it comes in the form of ungrateful rotten kids.
They live in their parents' basements, talk smack to you, push all your buttons. So you start thinking, "Was I a bad parent?" HELL to the NO! They are using you. Thank God my kids at least have good jobs and make a lot of $$$ cause I sure as hell wouldn't want them in MY basement. Driving me nuts, demanding things, telling me I owe them. Hell no. But, a lot of parents are seeing this. You can go to youtube you will see a lot of therapist talking about some of the problems with these adult children: