Kathy and Alex and everyone at this forum:
Thank you very much for being willing to listen and to engage seriously with an alternative viewpoint. It takes a lot of class on the part of Alex to invite me, even though we have some differences. By the way, the bulk of my work has not been to "debunk" NDEs, but to support research on NDEs (almost a million dollars) by such major scholars as Sam Parnia (and others), and also to argue that they are REAL in every sense of the term, when properly interpreted. Unquestionably they are real and beautiful and have deep and positive effects. The only question is whether we have to take them to be a proof of the afterlife, and reasonable people can disagree.
Again, thanks to all of you for engaging with my work. I will be on Michael Shermer's podcast, Science Salon, in December, and an article and accompanying blog (come and participate) by me will appear soon in The New York Times. Of course, don't buy these books--get them at the library or used--you can also see how I seriously address the main questions about the "meaning" of NDEs and whether they are a "proof of heaven" in my two Oxford University Press Books on these subjects. In my 2019 book, "Death, Immortality, and Meaning in Life" I argue that NDEs are real and have lessons for the meaning of life, and end-of-life. It might be more productive to read these discussions of many legitimate questions and issues you (and others) raise, rather than try to do this on a blog.
Also, I would welcome the chance to discuss these issues in a friendly but probing way with Jeffrey Long, MD, and I would arrange a venue and sponsorship at UC Riverside. I venture to say that we could all learn from further thought and discussion, even of viewpoints we don't antecedently share.