JD, this is what I would tell my kids - suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
If you are so physically disabled that you are in constant pain with no healing in sight, then yes, I would say that maybe suicide is a consideration. If you are a youngster, which I think you are, who is experiencing psychological pain, or something that requires help through family, friends, or medically, then please do not pursue this avenue. There are people that love you, and that would be devastated. Desired effect or not, you owe it to yourself to keep going until such time that you will realize that there is more out there for you to see and experience and know in this life, which is the blink of and eye in the larger scheme of things.
My problems are permanent. I am disabled in a way, I have unfixable physical problems, and my age can't be reversed. I honestly don't care if there are people who "love" me, and I don't think there are any such people anyway. My mother clearly wanted me to have a traditional marriage so she could use the woman I married as a surrogate daughter, because she wanted daughters but got sons instead. She doesn't really care about what I wanted, she just wanted me to facilitate the things
she wanted. My father is a patronizing idiot and constantly insults my intelligence, and for whatever reason, I've simply never liked him, much less wanted him involved in very personal parts of my life.
Even disregarding all of that, I still hate them for ever having me in the first place, because I've realized that I was always going to be miserable in this world. A part of me
hopes they'll suffer if I kill myself, especially my mother, who always liked to spew platitudes at me about how I could just choose not to be bothered by things, how I "let" events traumatize me (implying that it's my fault), how "there's more to life" than the things I care about, and how my life being completely destroyed is because God didn't want me to live the life I wanted. I wish I could see her being tremendously upset at my death (or anything, really) and having everyone around her say "Why don't you just choose not to be so upset?" See how she likes it.
I really don't care if there are other things to see. I'm not interested. I'm tired of people telling me that. I'm tired of fighting everyone instead of having people just accept that I want certain things and supporting me in that.
I doubt you really feel that. Else why are you here?
A few reasons:
The gun I bought a while ago was found and confiscated. I'm not sure exactly how to kill myself now.
I want to get in shape before I do it, just to prove that I could and wasn't just lazy.
I'm not sure if I want to leave something behind to tell my parents how much I hate them.
Sheer cowardice combined with literally being too depressed to do
anything, even kill myself. There are, however, many days where I just keep taking sleeping pills until I finally fall asleep, which is kind of like killing myself in a way.
Seems to me you are looking for someone to convince you not to do it.
I can assure you that that's not it. If I'm looking for anything, it's to be convinced that I can kill myself and be allowed to forget this entire life ever happened. I never want to remember this life ever again for the rest of eternity. I've come to hate myself so much that I'm incapable of believing I even deserve help. If someone appeared to me tomorrow and offered me everything I even wanted, I'd refuse. They'd have to force me. That's why even if there's a good afterlife, that wouldn't be enough for me, because I'd hate myself too much to accept it. That's why I want my memory completely erased.
Someone to give you a good reason not to do it. Wish I could come up with one, but I don't think I can -- in the end, the motivation has to come from yourself, and in any case, I don't really get what your issue is.
I suspect you're overthinking it. It really is as simple as "I didn't get to enjoy being young as a young person, I can't live with that, and nothing else holds any appeal for me."